Wednesday, 12 April 2017

EMPATHY IS ESSENTIAL FOREVER

LIFE BEGETS LIFE. 
ENERGY CREATES ENERGY 
IT IS BY SPENDING ONESELF
THAT ONE BECOMES RICH .

   Sarah Bernhardt


EMPATHY ENSURES 


 EVERLASTING RELATIONSHIP


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Empathy is one  of the most cherished virtues of everyone , which connects others  with abundant love and  affinity ,not allowing to entertain hatred , animosity and resentment .It guarantees the most peaceful, joyful   and successful life. Empathy means to put yourself in others shoes. It is to see from the POV of others.

 In our office,  all the staff  members  planned  to offer  some  donation to a nearby school on the Independence  day.  The school authority requested us to give uniform materials to the children.When the day for function neared we decided to offer  the same  to toppers  who excelled in their studies or those came with flying colors in sports and other activities.



One of the senior most official ,a wise, intelligent,and kind-hearted lady suggested students studying 1st standard should get the uniform . 
For this she gave the following points :
Toppers would have got their prizes from various sources.
 we can not identify the actual students who are sure to score high marks.
Hence it is better to give the uniform to small children studying in the First standard, there won't be any frustration out of jealousy and ego among them.

What she  told seems​ to be very rational and logical .She has been sensitive to the sentiments and feelings of the small kids.This is a fitting  example for empathy. We have to be empathetic to  comprehend the situation the other persons will be put into by our actions  and  act accordingly with prudence and diplomacy.


When others encounter  a setback or a mishap we should  not  laugh and  try to fish out of troubled waters. We should be excogitative enough to aid others sail through the storms .


 We don't know what would happen to us in the next moment . Serving others is equal to making social  deposit and that will be beneficial at our bad times .




PITY IS ANIMAL INSTINCT
SYMPATHY IS HUMAN NATURE
EMPATHY IS SOUL- CENTRIC


Hearing is inherent. 


We should learn to look at others' sufferings with humanity.


Seeing is inherent


 We should try to look at their shortcomings with compassion.


 Feeling the warmth of friendship is inherent. 


We should aspire to understand

others' limitations and misfortunes .

I see when there is  an accident , onlookers  try  to take videos of such occurrence and  post in the social media . They want their posting should go viral . This is very unfortunate attitude as the victim will be crying for  care and first aid. 

This should change and people must give priority for saving the wounded person and they can write stories afterwards.


 Let us all empathize with ourselves 
and show empathy to others at all times   

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