Wednesday, 15 March 2017

JEALOUSY IS A JEOPARDY OF JOY

THERE WILL NEVER BE ANOTHER NOW. I WILL MAKE THE MOST  OF TODAY THERE WILL NEVER BE ANOTHER ME . I WILL MAKE THE MOST  OF MYSELF.
                                   ROBERT .H. SCHEULLER

              Be jealous

                         Be joyless

jealousy க்கான பட முடிவு
Jealousy and joy will never go together. We have to sacrifice one for the other.Whenever we entertain it we deprive ourselves of  JOYFULNESS .


We are envious of others when we mind 
 their knowledge and skill
 their richness and fortunes
 their status and influence
 their health and well being
 their beauty and handsomeness
 their positions and qualification


Like this the list goes. Actually the other person having curly hair on his head gives all the reason for us to think  jealously.If this trivial matter counts ,the bigger things give room for all the unmindful thoughts of jealousy .  

When we look at rich and pojwerful people we have to see their efforts and learn lesson from their life. Jealousy will make us blind to see the struggles and sacrifices they have made.
We hear stories of rich people’s life full of stress and strain ,whereas poor people have got a peaceful and contented life with good slumber  and natural appetite.
When we come upon beautiful and handsome people we should understand the fact they are born like this and there is nothing to be envied. Celebrities and outstanding artists have their own hurdles and obstacles in the form of hectic schedule and incomputable pressures to perform .

 Outwardly some people appear attractive , but their heart will be dark with selfishness and crookedness.Some they look awkward outward and not good looking ,but they may have a golden heart with  a magnanimous mind .

Jealousy
Kills friendship and other relationship
Spoils our energy and time
Cuts the social fabric of togetherness
spurs untrustworthiness  and unpleasantness 

Compassion is the best antidote to jealousy.  In this world ,every one is struggling to balance in his personal  and social life. Whether we want or not we have to wear a social mask to survive in this society. Life does not need to be fair to all at all times. Sometimes life would be unfair and everyone is put into myriad trails and tribulations. Turmoils and triumphs are common to all.Some people struggle to make both ends meet.Some juggle to multitasking  and undertaking  different roles . 

Jealousy will lead us to talk in an unscrupulous manner  and it hurts others.Words are to be used as we value a diamond if we want to lead a happy and peaceful  life.Silence is golden. When we utter a word ,it becomes our master. Still ,it is in our mind we are masters of words.
When we talk ill of others we display jealousy . It creates bad image and harms  the otherwise good relationship. When we make ourselves busy by being active always we won’t get time to entertain evil thoughts about others.Also we  should develop the correct mindset by taking the following steps:

We give a shoulder to share others burdens
We talk only the positive facets of life .
We look for the good aspect in others .
We help others who are suffering and in distress ,
We support the weak and poor people financially
We extend moral support to those who suffer from physical and 
mental illness.
We act with humility and humanity as we don’t know what is in            the store for us.




படம் இதைக் கொண்டிருக்கலாம்: உரை



                                           COURTESY 
                                          GENUINE JOYFULNESS COMES FROM GOOD FRIENDS
                                          AND SOUND HEALTH,TRY TO ACHIEVE IT AND FOSTER                                                                      THAT OF  OTHERS    

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